Now receive the one who is weak in the faith,^[1] Paul wrote, still describing love for believers in Rome.  The Greek word translated weak is ἀσθενοῦντα (a form of ἀσθενέω).  The righteous will ask the Son of Man, When did we see you sick (ἀσθενοῦντα, a form of ἀσθενέω) or in prison and visit you?^[2]  For the Son of Man had said to them (Matthew 25:34b-36 NET):

Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.  For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I was naked and you gave me clothing, I was sick (ἠσθένησα, another form of ἀσθενέω) and you took care of me, I was in prison and you visited me.

Love will receive the ἀσθενοῦντα τῇ πίστει (the faith-sick or faith-weak^[3]).  The word translated receive is προσλαμβάνεσθε (a form of προσλαμβάνω).  Receive (προσλαμβάνεσθε, a form of προσλαμβάνω) one another, then, just as Christ also received (προσελάβετο, another form of προσλαμβάνω) you, to God’s glory.^[4]  After we had safely reached shore, Luke wrote about a shipwreck, we learned that the island was called Malta.  The local inhabitants showed us extraordinary kindness,^[5] for they built a fire and welcomed (προσελάβοντο, another form of προσλαμβάνω) all because (διὰ) it had started to rain and was cold.^[6]  All included Roman soldiers, sailors and their prisoners.  But the meaning of προσλαμβάνω doesn’t end there (Acts 18:24-26 NET):

Now a Jew named Apollos, a native of Alexandria, arrived in Ephesus.  He was an eloquent speaker, well-versed in the scriptures.  He had been instructed in the way of the Lord, and with great enthusiasm he spoke and taught accurately the facts about Jesus (KJV: the Lord), although he knew only the baptism of John [Table].  He began to speak out fearlessly in the synagogue, but when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him aside (προσελάβοντο, another form of προσλαμβάνω) and explained the way of God to him more accurately.

This calls for some humility and patience with every new encounter, at least until one determines who is the least faith-sick or faith-weak (Matthew 16:21-23 NET):

From that time on Jesus began to show his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things at the hands of the elders, chief priests, and experts in the law, and be killed, and on the third day be raised.  So Peter took him aside (προσλαβόμενος, another form of προσλαμβάνω) and began to rebuke him: “God forbid, Lord!  This must not happen to you!”  But he turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan!  You are a stumbling block to me, because you are not setting your mind on God’s interests, but on man’s.”

Granted, Jesus was very direct before Peter had received the Holy Spirit.  I think the rest of us, if we discern that we are the least faith-sick or faith-weak in a particular encounter, will need even more humility and patience if our goal is to win a brother rather than an argument.  Peter might have benefited from Paul’s teaching on this receiving love.

Now receive the one who is weak in the faith, and do not have disputes over differing opinions.^[7]  The word translated disputes is διακρίσεις (a form of διάκρισις).  The goal is that we all become the mature, whose perceptions are trained (γεγυμνασμένα, a form of γυμνάζω; that naked exercise with the Holy Spirit) by practice to discern (διάκρισιν, another form of διάκρισις) both good and evil.^[8]  And the διακρίσεις πνευμάτων (discernment of spirits) is a manifestation of the Spirit.  But the way of love does not receive, welcome or take one aside to dispute over differing opinions.  Or as the NAS rendered it: Now accept the one who is weak in faith, but not for the purpose of passing judgment on his opinions.^[9]

The Greek word translated differing opinions is διαλογισμῶν (a form of διαλογισμός).  James wrote about κριταὶ διαλογισμῶν πονηρῶν (judges with evil motives).  It’s an interesting translation of διαλογισμῶν because my motives were the instant object of concern when I discussed my ideas with my elders.  Simeon prophesied over Jesus as a baby, as a result of him the thoughts (διαλογισμοί, another form of διαλογισμός) of many hearts will be revealed^[10] (ἀποκαλυφθῶσιν, a form of ἀποκαλύπτω).  For out of the heart come evil ideas (διαλογισμοὶ, another form of διαλογισμός), Jesus said, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander.  These are the things that defile a person…^[11]  The words translated evil ideas in Mark’s Gospel are οἱ διαλογισμοὶ οἱ κακοὶ, and here in Matthew’s διαλογισμοὶ πονηροί.

I grasped κακοὶ (a form of κακός) immediately.  My idea that group sex was the way of peace was truly οἱ διαλογισμοὶ οἱ κακοὶ.  But understanding πονηροί (a form of πονηρός) has taken me the better part of a lifetime.  My idea that I could become righteous by turning Paul’s definition of love into rules I obeyed in my own strength, no matter how well-intentioned, was also one of my evil ideas, διαλογισμοὶ πονηροί.  Matthew recorded what happened when some people brought…a paralytic lying on a stretcher^[12] to Jesus (Matthew 9:2b-5 NET).

When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, “Have courage, son!  Your sins are forgiven.”  Then some of the experts in the law said to themselves, “This man is blaspheming!”  When Jesus saw their reaction (ἐνθυμήσεις, a form of ἐνθύμησις) he said, “Why do you respond with evil in your hearts?  Which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven’ or to say, ‘Stand up and walk’?

The Greek word translated evil above is πονηρὰ (another form of πονηρός; hurtful, full of labours, annoyances, hardships) contrasted immediately with easier (εὐκοπώτερον, a form of εὐκοπώτερος; better for toil, more facile, with easy labour, easy).  By the way the word translated respond above is ἐνθυμεῖσθε (a form of ἐνθυμέομαι); to be inspirited, ponder, to bring to mind, revolve in mind, to think, to deliberate).  I note that Paul did not choose a form of ἐνθυμέομαι or ἐνθύμησις (deliberation, thinking, consideration, thoughts) in Romans 14:1.  But Luke, narrating the same story, called the law experts’ reaction διαλογισμοὺς (another form of διαλογισμός), translated hostile thoughts (Luke 5:21, 22 NET):

Then the experts in the law and the Pharisees began to think (διαλογίζεσθαι, a form of διαλογίζομαι) to themselves, “Who is this man who is uttering blasphemies?  Who can forgive sins but God alone?”  When Jesus perceived their hostile thoughts, he said to them, “Why are you raising objections (διαλογίζεσθε, another form of διαλογίζομαι) within yourselves?”

When Peter falsely assumed he was the least faith-sick and took Jesus aside and explained the way of God to him more accurately, Jesus smacked him fairly hard with his words.  When the experts in the law (and, in Luke’s Gospel narrative, the Pharisees) questioned—Who can forgive sins but God alone—Jesus answered with deeds more than words (Luke 5:23-25 NET):

“Which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Stand up and walk’?  But so that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins” – he said to the paralyzed man – “I tell you, stand up, take your stretcher and go home.”  Immediately he stood up before them, picked up the stretcher he had been lying on, and went home, glorifying God.

Another example follows (Luke 6:6-11 NET):

On another Sabbath, Jesus entered the synagogue and was teaching.  Now a man was there whose right hand was withered.  The experts in the law and the Pharisees watched Jesus closely to see if he would heal on the Sabbath, so that they could find a reason to accuse him.  But he knew their thoughts (διαλογισμοὺς, another form of διαλογισμός), and said to the man who had the withered hand, “Get up and stand here.”  So he rose and stood there.  Then Jesus said to them, “I ask you, is it lawful to do good (ἀγαθοποιῆσαι, a form of ἀγαθοποιέω) on the Sabbath or to do evil (κακοποιῆσαι, a form of κακοποιέω), to save a life or to destroy it?”  After looking around at them all, he said to the man, “Stretch out your hand.”  The man did so, and his hand was restored.  But they were filled with mindless rage (ἀνοίας, a form of ἄνοια) and began debating (διελάλουν, a form of διαλαλέω) with one another what they would do to Jesus.

It is easy to criticize the experts in the law and the Pharisees.  But I am fairly certain if an apostle walked into my childhood church, preached a sermon that questioned the force or validity of any of our cherished religious beliefs and healed the sickest most beloved person in the congregation to make his point, we would have called it a lying wonder.  I’ve had my own issues with Jesus and the Sabbath.^[13]

In the Gospel harmony below Jesus demonstrated this receiving, welcoming and taking aside love with his disciples without disputing their opinions; in fact He didn’t even confront them directly with their opinions:

Luke recorded yet another example how Jesus handled his disciples διαλογισμοὶ.  Cleopas and another disciple had heard the rumor—a vision of angels, who said he was alive^[14]—but left Jerusalem for Emmaus anyway.  The resurrected Jesus walked with them, inquired about and listened to their discussion.  Then beginning with Moses and all the prophets, he interpreted to them the things written about himself in all the scriptures.^[15]  But their religion and unbelief blinded them.  They didn’t recognize Him until he had taken his place at the table with them, he took the bread, blessed and broke it, and gave it to them.^[16]  Then he vanished out of their sight.^[17]  The story continued (Luke 24:33-43 NET):

So they got up that very hour and returned to Jerusalem.  They found the eleven and those with them gathered together and saying, “The Lord has really risen, and has appeared to Simon!”  Then they told what had happened on the road, and how they recognized him when he broke the bread.  While they were saying these things, Jesus himself stood among them and said to them, “Peace be with you.”  But they were startled and terrified, thinking they saw a ghost.  Then he said to them, “Why are you frightened, and why do doubts (διαλογισμοὶ, another form of διαλογισμός) arise in your hearts?  Look at my hands and my feet; it’s me!  Touch me and see; a ghost does not have flesh and bones like you see I have.”  When he had said this, he showed them his hands and his feet.  And while they still could not believe it (because of their joy) and were amazed, he said to them, “Do you have anything here to eat?”  So they gave him a piece of broiled fish, and he took it and ate it in front of them.

The only way I know to show his resurrection rather than tell it is to be led by his Spirit, to demonstrate his love, his joy, his peace, his patience, his kindness, his goodness, his faithfulness, his gentleness and his self-control.  And yet, the reasoning, differing opinions, debates and nagging doubts of my heart, which make me feel like one of the foolish people…slow of heart to believe,^[18] is that I love too much.

Romans, Part 80

^[1] Romans 14:1a (NET)

^[2] Matthew 25:39 (NET)

^[3] I think “in the faith” would probably take the form of ἐν τῇ ἀνατολῇ (in the East), ἐν τῇ ἐρήμῳ (in the wilderness), ἐν τῇ οἰκίᾳ (in the house), ἐν τῇ βασιλείᾳ (in the kingdom), ἐν τῇ πρύμνῃ (in the stern), ἐν τῇ συναγωγῇ (in the synagogue), ἐν τῇ κρίσει (in the judgment) or ἐν τῇ πίστει (in the faith).

^[4] Romans 15:7 (NET)

^[5] τὴν τυχοῦσαν φιλανθρωπίαν

^[6] Acts 28:1, 2 (NET)

^[7] Romans 14:1 (NET)

^[8] Hebrews 5:14b (NET)

^[9] Romans 14:1 (NAS)

^[10] Luke 2:35a (NET)

^[11] Matthew 15:19, 20a (NET)  Also Mark 7:21-23

^[12] Matthew 9:2a (NET)

^[13] Romans, Part 11; Romans, Part 12; Romans, Part 26; Justice and Mercy; Romans, Part 54; My Reasons and My Reason, Part 6; Romans, Part 70

^[14] Luke 24:23b (NET)

^[15] Luke 24:27 (NET)

^[16] Luke 24:30 (NET)

^[17] Luke 24:31b (NET)

^[18] Luke 24:25a (NET)